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Old 09-03-2006, 09:11 PM   #10 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Default Re: When do you set your limits with a couple?

With new couples, it usually comes up for us once we've made it back to our destination for playing and the small talk is happening. Actually, speaking of transitions (in the another thread), a pretty direct transition we've used is "so, what are your rules?" That way, we'll get into a discussion about what everybody's into and NOT into, and usually that lends its way to the next step.

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