The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Couples what steps do you take in meeting single males?

OhioCouple · 01-30-2003, 09:18 PM

I could not vote on this poll either even though I am half tempted to just to see what the other votes are.

We have not yet has a relationship with a single male although it is something we are looking forward to.

Due to all the reading that we have done (well more so me than my husband) finding the right one will be toughest going through me. This is where I think that the comfort of just meeting and having friendships with couples is the biggest asset. There are no worries as to whether they are who they say they are. No worries about irate spouses or being drug into a courtroom.

As much as I hate to say it, a single male would have to go through the major third degree with me in order to step foot into the private arena. My husband would be mild in comparison to what I would expect, and I am the one who most desires an MFM.

I am hoping that over time I will not be so critical of all of those that choose to call themselves single men and making them prove it, but after the last few months that we have encountered on this board and another one, it is an uphill battle.

Perhaps it can be likened to the single that hopes he can meet some people in this lifestyle and the couple that hopes to find the truly single male.

Lori

01-30-2003, 09:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I could not vote on this poll either even though I am half tempted to just to see what the other votes are. We have not yet has a relationship with a single male although it is something we are looking forward to. Due to all the reading that we have done (well more so me than my husband) finding the right one will be toughest going through me. This is where I think that the comfort of just meeting and having friendships with couples is the biggest asset. There are no worries as to whether they are who they say they are. No worries about irate spouses or being drug into a courtroom. As much as I hate to say it, a single male would have to go through the major third degree with me in order to step foot into the private arena. My husband would be mild in comparison to what I would expect, and I am the one who most desires an MFM. I am hoping that over time I will not be so critical of all of those that choose to call themselves single men and making them prove it, but after the last few months that we have encountered on this board and another one, it is an uphill battle. Perhaps it can be likened to the single that hopes he can meet some people in this lifestyle and the couple that hopes to find the truly single male. Lori
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