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Old 08-31-2006, 04:51 AM   #39 (permalink)
VCee3
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Default Re: IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE

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I think too often we get so far into this and forget what those early days felt like. How scary it may have been or those small pangs of jealousy or questions we may have had.
Echo this completely.. we've just had our second foursome and ironically it was me (MrVCee3) who began to have the usual green-eyed monster feelings after seeing her with another guy. To be honest, most of them are the usual "Is he better than me?" or "She seems to be enjoying it a little TOO much" paranoia, which is stupid because if she wasn't loving every minute of it, why the hell are we bothering?!

Before we did it, I was like a kid with a new toy and she was much more "oh, I'm not sure how I'll feel with you having sex with another woman". Turns out she finds it very hot and comments on how sexy I look doing it!

But, it doesn't make me doubt her love for me (nor mine for her) and I know those minor negative feelings will be washed away due to the strength of our relationship.
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