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NJCouple · 08-29-2006, 10:34 AM

We too are new to swinging. (A couple of MFM threesomes). We have met for drinks with a few couples, but have not yet set our first couples play date. (I think it will be soon!) We have found swingers to be great people socially and very easy to talk with. Even discussing sex in a public place became easy and comfortable. WOW! I think choosing someone experienced in the lifestyle and with whom you have a high comfort level is the key to easy communication and a great first time. At least thats what I'm hoping for.
Good Luck!

08-29-2006, 10:34 AM	#8 (permalink)
NJCouple Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 52 Location: NJ Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:voraciousdesires	Re: When do you set your limits with a couple? We too are new to swinging. (A couple of MFM threesomes). We have met for drinks with a few couples, but have not yet set our first couples play date. (I think it will be soon!) We have found swingers to be great people socially and very easy to talk with. Even discussing sex in a public place became easy and comfortable. WOW! I think choosing someone experienced in the lifestyle and with whom you have a high comfort level is the key to easy communication and a great first time. At least thats what I'm hoping for. Good Luck!