[EvilMJ]

Even though we are a couple who does play separately from time to time, it all comes down to the people we are playing with.

There are couples who I wouldn't bat an eye if hubby said he wanted to play alone with the wife, or decided they were going to shower together, but there are others that I wouldn't feel so comfortable with.

I know what spoo is talking about. That sick feeling in your stomach wondering what is going on while you are not there. Even though you trust your spouce, you just can't help it. It's happened to me before. It was becuase I didn't trust the wife. In fact we no longer play with them for that reason. Sometimes you can help feeling the way you are feeling. I don't think it makes anyone insecure or their relationships weak, I think it just makes us human.

I like to deal with things on a case by case bases. The way we play is taylored toward the people we play with, taking personalities, rules, comfort zones into consideration.