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Old 08-29-2006, 02:08 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Default Re: Out of sight...worried mind?

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
How many of you "same-room swing" couples get antsy if, during play, your spouse heads off to the bathroom to take a shower with the other woman?

Or maybe your spouse is not in view during play because he's on the floor with the other woman while you're on the bed?

And I'm even curious about when they are in view, but not near enough to touch, does that bring on discomfort for one of the couple you're playing with?

Anybody see this happening with their playpartners, or find this happening with themselves while playing?

LM
A while back, yeah, the shower thing would have bothered me, but none of the rest has ever been an issue. Since we've become comfortable enough for seperate play even the shower thing is not an issue. In fact, recently Mrs. WS told me to go take a shower with a playmate.

Our rule is that we just ask each other. If Mrs. WS wants to go to a seperate room or to play with someone alone when I'm not playing, all she has to do is ask me if I mind. Although neither of us has exercised this veto power yet, we both have it equally and without question.

Mr. WS
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