i guess i have what input i know on this matter sorry if i get long winded
i have to agree with the spoomonkies feelings on this. we are same room people or furnature for that matter
we dont have to hold each others hands to have sex with other people. but we dont do the you go in there, and we will go in here thing. why? honestly we just dont feel we need that.we haven't asked each other for such an event.
i dont know if that means we haven't evolved....
we did almost meet a couple that was honest about this though, the guy couldn't have sex with his wife in the same room, he just couldn't do it.. so they had their rules wanting things the way they wanted.they were honest about everything and we found respect in that. we just looked at each other and thaught we will cross that bridge when we get there for our satisfaction also.open minded
situation #2 mrs.fun stopped by some friends house to drop off some items that she had picked up for them at the store. well the mr. is in the shower and the mrs. has some questions, and they all three end up in the bathroom together. oh yes he had his hopes and personaly i dont blame him, their good friends and i would have been fine with any play that might have happend but mrs.fun decided no play without me and thats.... cool, but not a problem.
another time we were at a club and mrs.fun was putting away our stuff and a guy grabs her and kisses her and tries to lead to lets have some quality time on our own. now this guy knew our same room rules, oh yes he knew. now thats just being an asshole. but mrs.fun handled the situation and came to me promptly. no drama but why would someone try to test her/us?
so i guess where im going with this is. maby some day we might be into seperate rooms but that will be our bridge to cross together when we get there. and i can only hope its with someone that has the insight that we have seen in this post.
