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Old 08-28-2006, 05:01 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Out of sight...worried mind?

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
How many of you "same-room swing" couples get antsy if, during play, your spouse heads off to the bathroom to take a shower with the other woman?
We wouldn't do that kind of thing unless we were totally comfortable with a couple in which case we wouldn't be antsy.

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Or maybe your spouse is not in view during play because he's on the floor with the other woman while you're on the bed?
Thats not a issue really. Everyone is in 'earshot' so to speak.

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And I'm even curious about when they are in view, but not near enough to touch, does that bring on discomfort for one of the couple you're playing with?
Never was an issue even from the beginning.

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Anybody see this happening with their playpartners, or find this happening with themselves while playing?

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We used to be same room only, but have moved to seperate provided the couple in question are true friends. I think other than your first shower question, most well adjusted same room couples wouldn't have a problem. I'd be a little....umm...concerned if a couple felt they had to be in touching distance at all times or freak out.
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