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Originally Posted by good times It is funny how most of us have no problem carying on a conversation with others in the vanilla world, but when we come to swinging we all of a sudden get worried about what we say and when we should say it. |
I don't know, my vanilla friends have never needed to know that I'm a squirter.
Seriously, I don't know if times have changed (it's been 10 years since my last first date) or if the swinging world differs from the dating world but there seem to be definate differences between swinging and my dating experiences.
With dating, I never had conversations about rules beforehand. We just kind of went slowly and felt each other out. I would have considered it absurd for a guy to tell me that he'd only have sex with women who are shaved just so, or for women to require a minimum penis size. But from what I've read here that seems to be acceptable. So there do seem to be more awkward things that have to be worked into conversation than I ever had with dating.