The Swingers Board - View Single Post - When do you let the other couple know your limits?

JP51 · 08-28-2006, 11:41 AM

Ok, understand your thought process...question is?

Are you asking "Dog, you need to tell me when you are going to cum, with her?"

or are you asking your new play partner "Tell, me when you are going to cum?"

in either case, following it with a comment along the lines of "I need to hear it, it is such a turn on" will never put anyone off.

If it with another partner, whom you want to cum in a special place, or you do not want him to cum someplace, just say so, during foreplay...like...you know "John, I really want you to cum on my breast, no matter what we are doing, please do this for me". As for Dog just tell him to be vocal, you "want to know"; he will not have a problem with it I am sure!

Any guy lucky to have you and passed your screening will comply with your wishes, with a "no problem". And be happy you told him what you want!

08-28-2006, 11:41 AM	#4 (permalink)
JP51 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 176 Location: Texas Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jimdebra1	Re: When do you set your limits with a couple? Ok, understand your thought process...question is? Are you asking "Dog, you need to tell me when you are going to cum, with her?" or are you asking your new play partner "Tell, me when you are going to cum?" in either case, following it with a comment along the lines of "I need to hear it, it is such a turn on" will never put anyone off. If it with another partner, whom you want to cum in a special place, or you do not want him to cum someplace, just say so, during foreplay...like...you know "John, I really want you to cum on my breast, no matter what we are doing, please do this for me". As for Dog just tell him to be vocal, you "want to know"; he will not have a problem with it I am sure! Any guy lucky to have you and passed your screening will comply with your wishes, with a "no problem". And be happy you told him what you want!