Here are a few questions for any folks out there who are bisexual:
Is your current bisexual status based on a decision to change your orientation, or have you been bisexual your whole life?
Since puberty. I remember the first time I felt anything at all. I was looking at a magazine, with a friend, of a woman giving oral sex to a man. My friend was going on and on about her doing this to him. While I sure liked that idea of having that done to me, I also could not stop thinking about what it would be like to be the one giving! I even said something to my friend like "lucky woman." My friend looked at me like "say what!?" I made something up about how good she was and should be lucky he let her do something like that. He never said another thing and neither did I
If you've been bisexual your whole life, were there influences that made you think that you were other than bisexual? (ie. getting married and having a family, more same-sex relationships than norm, etc.)
No. I like women WAY more than I do men. I am married to a woman and would not want it any other way. I have always looked at it this way. Women are beautiful and I am attracted to them. I have never been attracted to a man before! It is more pure lust towards a man. I would make love to a woman over a man any day of the week!!
How have you found your current status beneficial to your personal growth?
I think you understand the other sex a little better. My wife did not know what I was until after we were married. It came out and she was fine with it. But before she knew about it she would say something like "you have no idea what I go through giving oral sex! Would you like having a penis shoved in your mouth? You have no clue what it is like to have cum in your mouth." After the truth came out we became even closer. She knew I was not asking anything I had never done before!