I asked this question within a thread that JustaskJulie posted so I am putting it here so I don't rob Julie of her thread.
Ok here I go, I am about to show the green behind my ears AGAIN.
I am just getting use to letting my lover (Dog) know about what I want. I am just getting use to looking him in the eyes and saying yes babe I want to swing. I have never been with a man so open and honest, I am still a little gun shy about saying what I want.
Now, here is where I show my green.
Geez if only you guys could see how much I am stuggling getting this out.
OK, how do you say, hey I need you to tell me when you are going to cum.
is it over dinner at the resturant? Do you sit down at on the bed and say ok here are my hard limits, and soft limits.
I know in the end that setting limits is the only way to go. But when and how do you approach this topic?
Do my questions make sence?
What color does red(my face) and green(my ears) make. That is the shade of me right now.
You guys are the best and I know you wont laugh at me....well ok maybe you will, but I know you will answer my question honestly.
Your friend,
Prettylady
