Hey Su and Bud. Welcome
to our guest
I am new to swinging as well. I have to say even if it doesn't work out(which Dog and I hope it does) for Dog and I The lesson I have learnt in communication has made this experience, however limited, a worth while experience.
You have spent most of your life with the idea that she is mine I am hers mentality. I expressed a few times on the board and to Dog that even though I am totally on board with swinging I am nervous about the first time I see Dog kiss another woman in a way other than a friendly goodnight.
I have never seen a boyfriend intimite with another women, it will likely take a moment and yes I may go "hey wait a minute" but I am positive that it is only going to be that one moment. I have a life time of thinking a certain way to get over.
That is why we chose to club first. Get a sence of whats what. Let me see Dog dance and chat up another woman.
I saw it, I had no trouble with him asking a woman to dance even though I knew he found her beautiful. He is a sucker for the eyes, and she has the eyes that could stop a man in his tracks.
I then danced with her husband and I loved it. I was different, I was a little nervous. But I liked it.
Had we have just went all the way with out getting to know and like this couple. (we haven't played yet) It may not have been a good experience. There may have been drama. I can't say for sure. But I am glad we went slow.
So in a VERY round about way, what I am trying to say is, You have had one way of thinking for so long that you can't just up and say, I chose to think differently starting........NOW!
I hope I was rambling to much, but thats my 2 cents worth.
Your friend,
Prettylady
