Is your current bisexual status based on a decision to change your orientation, or have you been bisexual your whole life?
I am actually open to bi activity with certain women and I enjoy it but I don't consider myself bisexual. It is interesting that while many women enjoy other women sexually within this lifestyle I would wonder how many are truly bisexual (as in would equally consider a relationship, not just sex with another woman).
If it was a decision, what were your influences? (ie. magazines, spousal encouragement, acting on curiosities, etc.)
The only influence on me was a partner who took me to a ladies only party where they introduced women to the concept of sex with other women. It was so low key and non pressure that I thought okay I would give it a try. I ended up playing with about 4 other women at the party, it blew my mind.
I don't find I am attracted to many women but when I am it is usually a strong attraction (but just physical). I find for the most part women tend to kiss better than most men.
I never had any attraction to women growing up, my fantasies were always males. Now currently I have a big one about Angelia Jolie that I just can't get out of my head. That woman is pure, raw sex.
If you've been bisexual your whole life, were there influences that made you think that you were other than bisexual? (ie. getting married and having a family, more same-sex relationships than norm, etc.)
Not applicable to me.
How have you found your current status beneficial to your personal growth?
My current status is hetero-sexual with a little bi -sex attraction within the lifestyle thrown in for some added pleasure. It benefits me in a purely sexual enjoyment way.
