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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 How many of you "same-room swing" couples get antsy if, during play, your spouse heads off to the bathroom to take a shower with the other woman? |
For us, this doesn't happen. We actually discussed the "shower" scenario and weren't comfortable with it. We all play/stay in the same room.
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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 Or maybe your spouse is not in view during play because he's on the floor with the other woman while you're on the bed? |
If you are having sex with someone, you are going to focus on them. Glancing over at Mrs Spoo, catching her twinkling eyes and seeing her "damn, I'm having fun" smile, are incredible. But, it is not like I stare at ther the entire time I'm with a playmate.
You could poke the wrong thing doing that...
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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 And I'm even curious about when they are in view, but not near enough to touch, does that bring on discomfort for one of the couple you're playing with? |
No. We will play on seperate beds - or other assorted pieces of furniture. Touching is really nice, but it isn't always practical.
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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 Anybody see this happening with their playpartners, or find this happening with themselves while playing? |
We are probably the oddballs. We always do same room - for the very reason that doing this together is the turn on for us. But we have never had an experience where the couple we were with didn't pay attention to us. And, I would venture a guess that the couples that we have played with were quite satisfied by the amount of attention we paid them.
Spoomonkey