The Swingers Board - View Single Post - IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE

***JustAskJulie*** · 08-27-2006, 10:02 PM

I'm amazed at this thread... I actually thought it would lead to bad things... color me wrong.

1. It's an enjoyable read to read so many posts from so many happy couples who have been together for quite a while and swinging quite a while and OMG still happy!

2. It brought us Sue & Bud, whom hopefully we can actually help, unlike the original poster who will probably never come back and post the whats whens or whys that have made them feel the way they do.

Bud, Welcome to the board. Hopefully Sue is reading along with you and by now you have discussed this post and realized that either a) she does enjoy what she's doing and is doing it for herself (as much if not more than for you), or b)that she doesn't enjoy what she's doing and you should stop swinging.

Personally, I think that if you feel that if you are swinging and ever feel that maybe swinging isn't the right thing for you to be doing then it probably isn't. Swinging is not for everyone.

08-27-2006, 10:02 PM	#27 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE I'm amazed at this thread... I actually thought it would lead to bad things... color me wrong. 1. It's an enjoyable read to read so many posts from so many happy couples who have been together for quite a while and swinging quite a while and OMG still happy! 2. It brought us Sue & Bud, whom hopefully we can actually help, unlike the original poster who will probably never come back and post the whats whens or whys that have made them feel the way they do. Bud, Welcome to the board. Hopefully Sue is reading along with you and by now you have discussed this post and realized that either a) she does enjoy what she's doing and is doing it for herself (as much if not more than for you), or b)that she doesn't enjoy what she's doing and you should stop swinging. Personally, I think that if you feel that if you are swinging and ever feel that maybe swinging isn't the right thing for you to be doing then it probably isn't. Swinging is not for everyone.