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Old 08-27-2006, 02:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Join Date: Jun 2004
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Location: Hurricane Alley
Status: Couple
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Default Re: Attraction

Honey, you don't know that woman that you've been carrying a torch for all these years. Yes, there are people that there's an initial spark for, and a strong physical attraction, but that doesn't equal love...and that's one of the main lessons people in the lifestyle learn. Just because you think they're hot doesn't mean you can or should persue a lifelong commitment, or that you should give up everything you have in your current marriage. And, I'm sure if you've been fantasizing about this woman for all these years, I'm almost positive that the real experience would be far less magical than what you've been dreaming up. In your imagination, she is perfect. In real life, I'm sure she has bad habits and flaws (both physical and in character). You sure that you want to ruin your current marriage, hurt a woman whom you love and who is currently in a fight for her life, because you think a woman that you haven't known in nearly 50 years may be more attractive?

Doesn't make much sense to me....

Pepper
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