The Swingers Board - View Single Post - IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE

turnuptheheat · 08-26-2006, 11:34 PM

I hope guest registers and perhaps the input from members can actually help to heal what is at least perceived as a wound to their relationship.
Does the Mrs feel the same way? How long ago was it and under what circumstances did the 3 way occur?
Was it totally discussed beforehand or spontaneous?

Most swingers would agree that ll they really need is each other, but the experience of swinging, rather than being hurtful is liberating and brings them to alevel of mutual love and respec that is deeper and more complex than before.

Is there a particular element of the experience that guest is threatened by?
Maybe there is help here guest, and as was already posted, maybe swinging is not for you.

08-26-2006, 11:34 PM	#8 (permalink)
turnuptheheat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 233 Location: central NY Status: couple	Re: IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE I hope guest registers and perhaps the input from members can actually help to heal what is at least perceived as a wound to their relationship. Does the Mrs feel the same way? How long ago was it and under what circumstances did the 3 way occur? Was it totally discussed beforehand or spontaneous? Most swingers would agree that ll they really need is each other, but the experience of swinging, rather than being hurtful is liberating and brings them to alevel of mutual love and respec that is deeper and more complex than before. Is there a particular element of the experience that guest is threatened by? Maybe there is help here guest, and as was already posted, maybe swinging is not for you.