lol.. It will be very interesting to see the responses to this post, Guest. If you'd like to respond to this thread any further (and we'd love to hear back from you), you'll need to register, though.
Hope to hear back from you!
To respond to your statement, I'd like to say that while your experience is not exactly unique (meaning that there are lots of other couples out there who were playing with fire when they tried swinging), neither is it the ONLY outcome of swinging. This board is chock full of happy-ending stories from married couples, and as one of them, I have to say I believe they are true.
I am very sorry that your relationship was damaged. Maybe you think it ridiculous to do so, but I'm sure if you posted more detail about exactly what happened, there are lots of folks on here who would like to help by offering some heartfelt advice. Troubleshooting, if you will.