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Originally Posted by Petercockright I've been on both sides of this question as a couple and as a single. And quite frankly my dears I don't give a damn if the person male or female is married or not. I don't ask and I don't care how they decide to run their life. I just want them to focus on me or us. I don't care if their home life is wonderful or if it stinks... their life is theirs to manage.
I've been in this lifestyle for 20+ yrs, started and managed swing clubs, swinger groups and this topic is always being brought up. The morality police are always trying to push the idea that solos are always cheaters. Cheating is a 3 rd grade notion denoting someone else has ownership of anothers body. Why should anyone think they are charged with the responsiblity of judging how others choose to live their life. |
It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt. Cheaters hurt the people they are cheating on. We won't help someone hurt someone else. Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we don't have ethics.
The last thing we need is to be drug into a divorce trial by a disgruntled spouse, have the disgruntled spouse harrassing us via phone because they found our number on their spouses cell biill or address book, or worse, to have them show-up on our doorstep toting a gun and theatening or actually doing harm to us and our family.
All that for a little sex we can get elsewhere without potential drama... I think not.
Mr. WS