[Petercockright]

I've been on both sides of this question as a couple and as a single. And quite frankly my dears I don't give a damn if the person male or female is married or not. I don't ask and I don't care how they decide to run their life. I just want them to focus on me or us. I don't care if their home life is wonderful or if it stinks... their life is theirs to manage.

I've been in this lifestyle for 20+ yrs, started and managed swing clubs, swinger groups and this topic is always being brought up. The morality police are always trying to push the idea that solos are always cheaters. Cheating is a 3 rd grade notion denoting someone else has ownership of anothers body. Why should anyone think they are charged with the responsiblity of judging how others choose to live their life.