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Originally Posted by Amanda69 I am seeing this come up more and more. Married males playing without their partners for various reasons.
Is there any good reason that you would say yes to this situation? Do you care or if you were interested would it matter that he is playing without his partner? Do you check with the other partner for permission? Or do you believe the guy who says his wife is okay with this?
For us this is just too much drama. We say no to any involvement with any male or female playing in the lifestyle without their partners. We are not interested in what kind of permission they may have or meeting up with the partner to hear about it....by the way partners who play separately are different we are talking about those whose partners are not involved in the lifestyle. |
This is kind of a double-edged sword since we have only met one married guy playing single in the past couple of years and I do have permission from Mrs. WS to play solo if I feel I want to.
The one guy we did meet solo was in Salt Lake on business. He and his wife have a profile on Swing Lifestyle and Swingular and we chatted with her both on IM and on the phone before we met him. She was also interested in playing we me solo (they live about three hours away), but the opportunity has not presented itself yet (damnit!).
There are a couple women I can play with solo anytime I want to that are part are part of a swinging couple that we have both played with.
The difference here? In both of these circumstances the person we are playing with are part of a swinger couple and we have either played with, or know the spouse.
We would not play with a single (male or female) that did not meet the above criteria.
Mr. WS