Well, sweetie, I wasn't really asking the question. I was merely trying to explain the reason why I think swinging is more for older folks. I have a great relationship with my partner after 5 years. But as you get older and worry about whether your partner is satisfied, the idea crosses your mind if she'll get bored and cheat. Or you'll get bored and cheat. Or maybe your partner has been a swinger before but you haven't and you want to know what it's like before you get too old. See the thread about "What are Your Reasons for Swinging"
What are Your Reasons for Swinging
This discussion is great for newbies like me to understand why we're here.
Thanks for your thoughts.