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Originally Posted by Spika I feel kinda silly for admitting this, but the big thing that seems to be keeping my husband I from jumping head first into our local swinging community is the fact that much of the looking into it that we've done to seems to point to the fact that many of the people who participate in such a lifestyle are quite a bit older than we are...
I don't want to risk sounding really shallow, but the idea of swinging with people my parents age doesn't exactly do it for me (mind you, I'm saying this as a broadsweeping generalization).
Is this unusual for a young-ish (i'm 22) person interested in swinging to be feeling? |
Honestly I think you are too young to swing, I get heat for saying this to kids (and at 22 you are a kid) here but it doesn't phase me. You have too many things you should be doing at 22 that are more important than casual sex. The things you do now may well determine the course of your entire life, be it school or entry level jobs leading to bigger and better things. I also don't care how long you have been with your partner, it hasn't been that long yet by default unless you have been seeing each other since grade school.
When we started at 30/28 we were the kids on the block. We were ready for swinging and it has been a great thing for us, but it was close. I know had we swung earlier it would have most likely been a far less possitive relationship experiance.
Get your life in order, get a plan for your futures, love each other completely, and then come back to swinging.