I'm sure it's not unusual because, I'm 43 and Mr. LFM is 49. First couple that approached us was 23 tops. DAMN, I have kids older than that and it really did give me the heebie-jeebies. Our cut off age is about 40 to 60. I've always been attracted to older men, so being with one that is 60 or even a bit older would be a turn on for me. Being with one younger would make it feel somewhat -- weird and icky.