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Originally Posted by Mr&MrsSwing This will have to be somewhat of a quickie...
My husband and I have been swinging for a year now, and have had several experiences both with couples, and alone with singles. While my experiences have ranged from mediocre to horrid, his have been mediocre to excellent. I guess what I'm trying to say is I have been disappointed by the sizes of penis' I have encountered. I start getting intimate with the male half of the couple (or the single male) and I am excited; for the most part they were all attractive. Then I reach down to feel their penis, and am SO disappointed by its size I am almost immediately turned off. ........
I also feel a little guilty asking about the man's penis size before we even get intimate because I have had my fair share of men with erectile dysfunction from nerves, I can't imagine how much more magnified it would be if I said "by the way, is your dick big enough?" |
Why feel guilty about making sure you have a good experience? Hell, if you're not having a good time (to the point that you describe it as horrid
), you either need to ask for what you want or stop swinging. But, be specific. How big is big enough? I've never been disappointed by a playmate's size, but I've definitely been disappointed by someone's technique. It's not fun. So, if you can figure out how to make things fun for you.....DO IT!
Pepper