 Re: Question about swinging
There's nothing wrong with your preferences, but speaking for Mr. intuition and myself, we tend to read the "3/4" swap thing and go "Oh." then move on to the next ad.
I think after we finally experienced the joys of full swap, we never looked back. We have no problem playing with folks who simply PREFER soft-swap as opposed to full swap, but we feel that these folks are few and far between. Most others only want to soft-swap because of some sort of hangup that either Mr. or I will try to take his/her partner away, or that his/her partner will fall in love with one of us, or that intercourse is "too intimate", etc, etc. After swapping, we suddenly understood how one sex act is just as intimate as another...including intercourse...and that it was the intent behind the act that counted. So since then, we deduced that where there's a hangup, there's drama looking for a place to happen. Ergo, we avoid it.
This may not be your case at all, but I'm just offering our perspective.
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