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Old 08-21-2006, 06:48 PM   #11 (permalink)
intuition897
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Default Re: Do you play with Married Males without their partners?

When we were actively swinging, we would not consider 99% of the married solo players, male or female. That one percent had to meet so many requirements that we didn't realistically expect it to happen. Still hasn't.

We'd only consider it if we could be certain that everyone was in the know, and that they had enough experience and a good enough relationship that they could do something like this. I couldn't be because they wanted to get away from each other, or because they didn't care who fucked whom. It was preferable that this was just another kiss & tell kind of game for them, and that they looked forward to screwing each other silly when the Mr. or Mrs. got home. That would be cool. The other possibility is that the couple would be close friends, and there was a great deal of trust between all four of us.

In any case, the comfort level needs to be WAY high.
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