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Originally Posted by Amanda69 I am seeing this come up more and more. Married males playing without their partners for various reasons.
Is there any good reason that you would say yes to this situation? Do you care or if you were interested would it matter that he is playing without his partner? Do you check with the other partner for permission? Or do you believe the guy who says his wife is okay with this?
For us this is just too much drama. We say no to any involvement with any male or female playing in the lifestyle without their partners. We are not interested in what kind of permission they may have or meeting up with the partner to hear about it....by the way partners who play separately are different we are talking about those whose partners are not involved in the lifestyle. |
If you have read my story
My first MFM - A gift from J. I posted under "swinger stories". you know that I am now a single again guy. And yes, there is always going to be drama in my life. There is the drama of loosing the love of my life. There is the drama of finding it difficult to find someone new that could fill a little of the void J left behind. There is the drama of telling people that if she were alive, she'd probably be ok with me swinging along. And I sure do wish you
could ask her if she is OK with me being involved with other people sexually. I can only speak from my own personal experience but sometimes I have found the greatest people when you get past all the drama. One really nice single woman I have met lately won't play with me because I am no longer married. She only plays with married men (she says) because they don't talk about their sexual escapades. So what the heck, I can't answer your question because I'm not a couple. I just wish there were a lot more understanding couples that would like to include me. Oh, well...go figure...