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ohash01 · 08-16-2006, 09:43 PM

We're clear on what our limits are if we get together with a couple. We've discussed in length. And he's not uneasy with my guy friends. He likes all of them. Our first experience was with another guy and we talked about it in length afterwards. He said everything I did was well within his realms of comfort...and he was happy with our experience. So I don't think he's feeling neglected. Plus that one experience is all we've had. And I treat him WELL when we're alone. He has no opportunity to feel neglected. Usually I am begging him to pay attention to me.

Our only issue right now is the "no being friends" point of view he is having...which he never discussed with me before tonight. I just needed a view on what is "normal". (Although I know everyone agrees there is no such thing)

08-16-2006, 09:43 PM	#9 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Friends Debate Revisited We're clear on what our limits are if we get together with a couple. We've discussed in length. And he's not uneasy with my guy friends. He likes all of them. Our first experience was with another guy and we talked about it in length afterwards. He said everything I did was well within his realms of comfort...and he was happy with our experience. So I don't think he's feeling neglected. Plus that one experience is all we've had. And I treat him WELL when we're alone. He has no opportunity to feel neglected. Usually I am begging him to pay attention to me. Our only issue right now is the "no being friends" point of view he is having...which he never discussed with me before tonight. I just needed a view on what is "normal". (Although I know everyone agrees there is no such thing)