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Originally Posted by ohash01 Things are now getting confusing at my house. Haha. Mr. says it's okay if I want to make girl friends and hook up with them, but he doesn't want them to come over here if they're my friends. WHY?!?! Perhaps he is scared he will fantasize about them? But you know...that'd be okay...cause isn't this all about fueling our sex lives? I'm not offended if he sometimes pictures other people. As long as he's shouting MY name  |
It sounds like ther are some other things at play here. Ie hubby could be jealous of you placing attention on others, especially when he's in your company. Also if he says he would like you to have more traditional female friendships, and raises a brow over your male friends, that to me this is a flag Surrender that would indicate more communication is needed between the two of you. Is he feeling not attended to? This could create serious issues if you enter into swinging w/out talking about where attention is placed when you swing. Just my opinion...