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Originally Posted by ohash01 slight backstory: i do not have many close female friends. i have always been a guys-girl. i worked at a bus garage in college. i probably have 15 super close guy friends and 4 super close girl friends. this annoys mr. he wants me to have normal girl friends that i giggle and go shopping with. |
Mrs Spoo is VERY similar to you. She has always been the kind of woman who has a dozen guy friends and very few girlfriends. It is just the way that she is.
She is just not much for "giggling and shopping".
She has, however, made friends easier with women in the lifestyle. I think it is the whole "shared interests" thing - and the freedom to be herself without having to "pretend" that she is not a swinger. She doesn't have to act like the proper PTA mom (unless I specifically request it... Hubba... facelick ). It is just easier to make friends when you don't have to hide behind masks.
Swinging doesn't "hang over" us at all. Sure - there is a lot more flirtatious freedom, but like all friends, we ask each other about work, family, dreams and even mundane house projects (did you know swingers do house projects???). I even had a swinger on here tell me how to fix my garbage disposal (thanks, Alura!). We are all adults - and when need be can straighten up and zip up.
You and your husband have an interest (and emotional freedom) in swinging. It is inevitable, I think, that you will eventually meet folks with whom you have a very easy, natural, comfortable friendship connection.
Spoomonkey