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sereneiders · 08-14-2006, 01:15 AM

The same old question comes up again. But I have to say, it's ill formulated: "How you handled it?"

Well, the question doesn't apply to this forum's members: we're here because our spouses (wife or husband, deppends on the case) didn't said "NO" (os, as in my case, where she said "NO", it was herself, 15 years later, and woithout me mentioning it again, who bring back the subject).

If you look trogh the forum you'll find cases of people whe pushed and talked their spouses into this, and you'll see that in EVERY case that leaded to disaster.

So, to answer the question "How you handled it?", either case, being RESPECTFULL with our respective spouse's choice. You dislike it? I'd like to have a couple millon dollars, however I wouldn't steal the money, just because THAT'D BE WRONG. As wrong and trying to get your way AFTER she CLEARLY said NO.

08-14-2006, 01:15 AM	#12 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: What if wife says no to swinging? The same old question comes up again. But I have to say, it's ill formulated: "How you handled it?" Well, the question doesn't apply to this forum's members: we're here because our spouses (wife or husband, deppends on the case) didn't said "NO" (os, as in my case, where she said "NO", it was herself, 15 years later, and woithout me mentioning it again, who bring back the subject). If you look trogh the forum you'll find cases of people whe pushed and talked their spouses into this, and you'll see that in EVERY case that leaded to disaster. So, to answer the question "How you handled it?", either case, being RESPECTFULL with our respective spouse's choice. You dislike it? I'd like to have a couple millon dollars, however I wouldn't steal the money, just because THAT'D BE WRONG. As wrong and trying to get your way AFTER she CLEARLY said NO.