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Originally Posted by Sandyb Hi all,
I am very much intrested in swinging. I explained this to my wife and expressed desire to try it. After, just asking to my wife she clearly mentioned said no.
Now I dont want to impose my liking. Have you faced the same oppposition in begining,,,, How you handled it?
Please guide.
Sandyb |
Do you think she would be okay with going to a lifestyle club maybe? I know with Jay, when he first thought of swinging he envisioned some sort of Etruscan orgies I think where everyone was having sex unprotected with everyone without abandon lol....and its not like that (well, for some it is lol). Perhaps if she were to see that swingers are real people, real moms and dads, educated and polite, she will see that its not just reckless hedonism. Remember too, that everything society has taught her as a woman is being challenged when you mention swinging. So, be patient and take it one step at a time. And perhaps she WON'T take to swinging, and that is her priority as well, her right to say no. So, take things slowly. Jay read a book called The Lifestyle, and he understood more after.