 Re: What if wife says no to swinging?
If she says "no", then that is it.
You can force the issue - and strain your marriage or you can let her be. If you are open with her about your desires - but are not pushy - and if she can trust your motivations, she may come around. She may not - but she may...
The biggest mistake is pushing. She will interpret that as a lack of respect - and it will cause her to question your motivation to swing. If she can not trust you, she will not feel comfortable enough (should she eventually want to) to explore herself.
Spoomonkey
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