Pregnancy is a huge fear for me. One of the big reasons why for now we're keeping it soft swap. If we do go full, it will likely be only with men who have had vasectomies. Possibly with a backup even then. I don't trust birth control completely. I concieved my youngest through a condom and hormonal birth control isn't an option for me. Nor is getting a surgery just so I can swing. I have a family history of hysterectomies, so I will likely get all my babymaking organs removed and can then go all wild.
