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Lumina · 08-13-2006, 07:15 AM

Leave it be. She may come around on her own, she may not. But any more attempts to convince her right now will likely be regarded as pressure.

If you haven't already, I would consider one more conversation telling her that while swinging is something you would like, she is so much more important to you and if she's never into it, that's just fine. Probably the last thing you wanted to hear, but I can honestly tell you that the biggest thing that has allowed me to explore swinging positively has been that my husband has said this to me multiple times. If he hadn't I probably wouldn't have gotten this far.

You could ask her what her reasons are against it. Please don't try to talk her out of them. Then tell her about this site (if she reads English) so she can learn more about the lifestyle and ask questions if she likes.

08-13-2006, 07:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
Lumina Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 89 Location: vermont	Re: What if wife says no to swinging? Leave it be. She may come around on her own, she may not. But any more attempts to convince her right now will likely be regarded as pressure. If you haven't already, I would consider one more conversation telling her that while swinging is something you would like, she is so much more important to you and if she's never into it, that's just fine. Probably the last thing you wanted to hear, but I can honestly tell you that the biggest thing that has allowed me to explore swinging positively has been that my husband has said this to me multiple times. If he hadn't I probably wouldn't have gotten this far. You could ask her what her reasons are against it. Please don't try to talk her out of them. Then tell her about this site (if she reads English) so she can learn more about the lifestyle and ask questions if she likes.