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Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle I was in the "open" room one nite doing the happy with a gal. But first let me say that in this room, you're supposed to be naked and playing with someone, not just lurking. Well, I heard/felt someone join us on the mattress. When I looked over, much to my surprise, there was a m/f couple, fully clothed laying there close enough to feel there breath, staring at the joined bodies (us). I told them "I usually charge for the entertainment." They left and when we finished I went looking for the owners but while looking, I found that the couple was no longer at the club. So it was not possible to point them out.
Mind you, if they had been naked, I would have enjoyed the participation even if just visual but they weren't even adventerous enough to disrobe. They just wanted to watch. I've thought of so many clever things I shoulda said. I can really be clever when I have the time to think about it.....lol. |
You realize, of course, that what that couple did that night may have been the most sexy, erotic thing that they have ever done together? It's not hard for me to imagine that even now, they think about that night when they're together, and that the memory is a continual source of arousal for them.
It's also not hard for me to imagine that the experience was a sort of "jumping off point" for them, and that they went on to further adventures. Maybe not at your club (for various reasons, many couples prefer to have their first experiences away from home) but
somewhere.
I'm really glad that you didn't say anything overtly unpleasant to them. Knowing that it was OK to proceed at a pace that was comfortable for
them, and that they wouldn't be considered freaks or pervs for wanting to explore their sexuality with other couples in close proximity, probably did more to advance the lifestyle than you realize.
It's important to remember that every person who participates in an "alternative lifestyle" becomes a
de facto "Ambassador" for that lifestyle.
What you say and how you treat people, especially new people, has a lot to do with how they regard this lifestyle and whether or not they'll ever come back.
You handled this situation with a lot of class. Thanks...