 Re: Scared and need advice
I have to wonder if this is a serious question.
If this is a serious question, I'm more concerned for your mental health. Any sane person could see that this is clearly abusive.
If this indeed happened, you need to be talking to the police - not us - about safely removing yourself and your kids from this situation. Swinging is something that happens in a loving, respectful and equal relationship. It's not about emotional battery. It's not about coercion or force. It's not about blackmail. It's not about selfishness. It's not about pretending that you can pass another human being around like a piece of meat so you can enjoy seeing them degraded. It's not about putting your kids at risk of the trauma of walking in on shit like this.
There is nothing right with this situation you've described. Absolutely nothing. I pray to God you're joking.
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