First of all don't do it with your best friend! I know it sounds like a good idea but, trust me it will be alot better in the long run if you don't. Try to find someone else, who you meet just for the threesome thing. This way you can find someone you are both comfortable with and all three of you will know that the end you are looking for is just hot threesome sex. With all that out in the open, it will be better for all three of you. Plus, if things do go wrong, he won't loose his best friend. Hope this helps.
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Originally Posted by pghcpl43some My wife and I have started to discuss the possibilty of having a 3 some with my best friend for starters then slowly move into swinging for about 4 months now. Now my best friend is a male and he really thinks my wife is attractive and hot looking. My wife really wants to try it with another male because she has only been with her first bf and me so she wants to expierence with someone else while I am present. The biggest problem I have is the whole jelousy issue or he is pleaseing my wife more than I could and she is really into more than how she is while we have sex. we are both are concered that if this does happen that she will like it so much that our sex life will suffer because she would want my best friend to be present.I am looking for some advice that will help ease my worries and make this into a reality for me cause I would really like to see my wife with another guy. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated. I sugegsted to her that we attend a locl swingers club to talk with other people but she said she would feel more uncomfortable in going to a place like that but she might consider. |