The Swingers Board - View Single Post - He wants to meet privately without my BF

ohash01 · 08-08-2006, 05:55 PM

Update - I have since voice chatted with the wife AND the cam on. She's real. No worries about that. And their little children were bouncing around in the background while we were talking, so at this point I'm assuming they're a couple who (for the most part) are on the same page. I didn't mention the fact that he had wanted to meet in case he really hadn't told her. I'm NOT breaking up marriages.

When I told him I couldn't meet him I told him BOTH that I had found better plans and that I was uncomfortable. Actually, I went to the fair with my roommate and cried like a baby due to the memorial concert that was held for our old state fair band director. He meant a lot to me in my professional development, so I can't say I really found BETTER plans since I ended up very sad, but they were probably safer and smarter plans.

Thanks for all your concern and advice. Like I said, I'm new to this...and I have been reckless in the past. Not reckless, per say, because it brought me boyfriend, but I met him online and then met him alone one night for the very first time at his house. That was one situation where I couldn't have asked for a better outcome, but I know all situations aren't as great as that.

Gotta love the internet.

08-08-2006, 05:55 PM	#22 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Cheating Swingers - HELP Update - I have since voice chatted with the wife AND the cam on. She's real. No worries about that. And their little children were bouncing around in the background while we were talking, so at this point I'm assuming they're a couple who (for the most part) are on the same page. I didn't mention the fact that he had wanted to meet in case he really hadn't told her. I'm NOT breaking up marriages. When I told him I couldn't meet him I told him BOTH that I had found better plans and that I was uncomfortable. Actually, I went to the fair with my roommate and cried like a baby due to the memorial concert that was held for our old state fair band director. He meant a lot to me in my professional development, so I can't say I really found BETTER plans since I ended up very sad, but they were probably safer and smarter plans. Thanks for all your concern and advice. Like I said, I'm new to this...and I have been reckless in the past. Not reckless, per say, because it brought me boyfriend, but I met him online and then met him alone one night for the very first time at his house. That was one situation where I couldn't have asked for a better outcome, but I know all situations aren't as great as that. Gotta love the internet.