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Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon So after a few weeks of this I finally asked him FLAT OUT what are you lookin for I was being blunt and just wanted to know. So Mr. Smith told me that right now he wasnt looking for anything he just wanted to focus on his Son I was like OK thats cool Im glad I know wher we stand.
The next time we talk its the SAME THING he flirts like no ones business and says he has no interested and in Person he doesnt. |
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UPDATE I talked to Mr Smith at length about this and...IS interested but it is as I suspected he is shy in person and has found it easier to flirt on the comp rather than face to face...
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He's given you differing reason's here and that concerns me.
I don't believe you've answered the question about whether you've told this couple that you are swingers and saw their profile on Swing Lifestyle. I would think that this step would be helpful in opening communication among all 4 of you, and definately necessary if you would like to see a swing relationship evolve.
Also, how do you know Mr. Smith's wife even knows you've been chatting with him online and flirting so heavily? I think this would be important to know. Have you discussed this with her face to face? Probably not. How would you feel if you learned that Mr Smith was doing the flirting online without his wife knowing? This is a possibility.
I've met a number of men who are shy, but they don't ever use that as an excuse for not opening up and being demonstrative with me once we've warmed up to each other and I've initiated flirting.
I think you have to ask yourself, how long can you be satisfied carrying on a sexual relationship ONLY through chat and shutting that down when in person?
LM