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pghcpl43some · 08-08-2006, 11:18 AM

My wife and I have started to discuss the possibilty of having a 3 some with my best friend for starters then slowly move into swinging for about 4 months now. Now my best friend is a male and he really thinks my wife is attractive and hot looking. My wife really wants to try it with another male because she has only been with her first bf and me so she wants to expierence with someone else while I am present. The biggest problem I have is the whole jelousy issue or he is pleaseing my wife more than I could and she is really into more than how she is while we have sex. we are both are concered that if this does happen that she will like it so much that our sex life will suffer because she would want my best friend to be present.I am looking for some advice that will help ease my worries and make this into a reality for me cause I would really like to see my wife with another guy. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated. I sugegsted to her that we attend a locl swingers club to talk with other people but she said she would feel more uncomfortable in going to a place like that but she might consider.

08-08-2006, 11:18 AM	#1 (permalink)
pghcpl43some Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: South Park Status: Married	Threesome - worried if we do it she will always want a third My wife and I have started to discuss the possibilty of having a 3 some with my best friend for starters then slowly move into swinging for about 4 months now. Now my best friend is a male and he really thinks my wife is attractive and hot looking. My wife really wants to try it with another male because she has only been with her first bf and me so she wants to expierence with someone else while I am present. The biggest problem I have is the whole jelousy issue or he is pleaseing my wife more than I could and she is really into more than how she is while we have sex. we are both are concered that if this does happen that she will like it so much that our sex life will suffer because she would want my best friend to be present.I am looking for some advice that will help ease my worries and make this into a reality for me cause I would really like to see my wife with another guy. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated. I sugegsted to her that we attend a locl swingers club to talk with other people but she said she would feel more uncomfortable in going to a place like that but she might consider.