Re: Cheating Swingers - HELP
I agree with everyone else here ohash. This situation SCREAMS of deceit and is one huge red light. Is it possible he is telling the truth. I suppose I would have to say any possibility is possible. Is it probable should be the question.
I am straight, but not opposed to a little g-g action with the right woman, during swinging activities. If I was looking for g-g action though, I would never send my husband to "screen" her by himself. First off, I am the one looking to play with her, so I would need to meet her for myself. Second, out of respect for the other woman I would never allow myself or my husband to ask her to meet him alone. Main reason would be, I would not enter that type of situation myself.
It seems to me, ANY man who is respectful of women would understand our need for safety and would not ask to meet just you while the BF is out of town, let alone insist on it.
Any man who would want to meet me, will know my husband will be there. If that is a problem, then he would get told really quick, "If meeting my husband is a problem, so it meeting me." And if he got pissy about it, oh well. That would confirm he was a creep.
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