The Swingers Board - View Single Post - He wants to meet privately without my BF

The Fuse · 08-08-2006, 09:41 AM

I am right with SheAndJaybee and PrettyLady on this one.

Don't meet the guy alone.

Don't meet for the first time while your boyfriend is out of town, even if he says his wife is coming, and even if she would be there.

Don't buy the "I screen women for g-g contact with my wife".

Any of these would be enough to send me running in the other direction. If he had your interest in mind, he would avoid even the appearance of impropriety. Even the suggestion shows that he is more concerned with getting in the same room with you than he is with your level of comfort.

I know you aren't meeting him this time because of your new plans, but my bet is that he will try again. Don't be fooled.

08-08-2006, 09:41 AM	#17 (permalink)
The Fuse Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse	Re: Cheating Swingers - HELP I am right with SheAndJaybee and PrettyLady on this one. Don't meet the guy alone. Don't meet for the first time while your boyfriend is out of town, even if he says his wife is coming, and even if she would be there. Don't buy the "I screen women for g-g contact with my wife". Any of these would be enough to send me running in the other direction. If he had your interest in mind, he would avoid even the appearance of impropriety. Even the suggestion shows that he is more concerned with getting in the same room with you than he is with your level of comfort. I know you aren't meeting him this time because of your new plans, but my bet is that he will try again. Don't be fooled.
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