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Originally Posted by discoandvyper Alternative to that would be playing without my wife, but that's not really a prime solution. Part of the thrill of the chase, so to speak, is seeing my wife in action from a third person perspective, doing it with her, doing it as something we as a couple do. I still find my wife unbelievably sexy so doing it without her in favor of some woman I don't really know well isn't what I'm after. Surely you guys here know the thrill in seeing your wife/girlfriend involved sexually with someone else. |
I understand. My hubby and I both enjoy very much doing this
with each other, and seeing each other, too. Like you said, it's a special thrill.
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Originally Posted by discoandvyper She talks at length about how she could never give up men, how she loves dick, and how this guy or that guy caught her attention earlier on a given day. Sure, I accept this could be her "cover story" she's using to keep me from finding out her secret. There's also the fact that before she married her first husband she had been with more women than men. There's also the fact that she was with more women than men during her first marriage and during the marriage she is now in with me. Hmm... maybe you are on to something. Still, I must take her implied word for it that she's not. I'll keep it in the back of my mind from now on, how's that sound? |
Just a thought for you - I wonder if her thinking is, "I already
have a man who takes care of my needs that way, I don't need any more of those". Maybe the girls are the "strange" that she doesn't get in your relationship since she's bi, so that's all she thinks she
needs in swinging?
The reason I wonder this: I have read this sort of thing sometimes in people's profiles. People saying something like, "No men, that's already covered, just want girls". Maybe this is how she thinks. Of course, you'd have to ask her! Let us know how the talking goes, and good luck.