The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We really like this couple but they are sending mixed signals

sereneiders · 08-07-2006, 06:34 PM

It seems to me you got you answer from this guy, he told you they don't want anything else (but the vanilla frriendship as it is by now). Besides this, it seems he enjoys the tease, and perhaps to be able to share sexualy related toughts and ideas with likeminded people, as a "plus" over the vanilla friendship.

The only problem here seems to be your expectations: you'd like something else to happen, and his teasing games would be feeding those expectations, disregarding the fact that you KNOW they wont be fulfilled.

IMO, in any situation, we'd stick to the words being told during the cold heart times, and whatever you hear in the middle of the action (even if so pale as this sort of teasing) that contradicts what was explicited shouldn't be taken into account.

08-07-2006, 06:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Someone I need some Real advice here It seems to me you got you answer from this guy, he told you they don't want anything else (but the vanilla frriendship as it is by now). Besides this, it seems he enjoys the tease, and perhaps to be able to share sexualy related toughts and ideas with likeminded people, as a "plus" over the vanilla friendship. The only problem here seems to be your expectations: you'd like something else to happen, and his teasing games would be feeding those expectations, disregarding the fact that you KNOW they wont be fulfilled. IMO, in any situation, we'd stick to the words being told during the cold heart times, and whatever you hear in the middle of the action (even if so pale as this sort of teasing) that contradicts what was explicited shouldn't be taken into account.