OK I will start off by saying im Emotional today and if this is Long Im sorry
So I am a little on the confused side about a couple the Mr and I have met. Heres the situation
I was talking to this guy online found out we live in the same town so we get to talking and come to find out we have alot in common and of course My mind goes " hhhmmm I wonder" so the Mr and I go online to feed a curiosity and come to discover this couple is also into the lifestyle we had actully talked to them on Swing Lifestyle a long time back. SO anyhow we are all getting together to do Stuff like BBQ, take the kids to the park,you know normal friends stuff right.
So Mr. Smith I will call him and I talk online regularly we talk on the phone from time to time, and hang out in person from time to time as they dont live far from us. WE flirt alot, make little enuendos and what not BUT as soon as we are face to face to face NOTHING Not even so much as a Flirtaious glace WTF Im so lost.
He regularly tells me the naughty things we should do, how much fun WE could all have if we got a nice cabin at the coast for the weekend find a sitter for all our kids and just LET GO but again in person NOTIHNG. Now his wife I know is BI has had several girlfriends live-in and out through out their marriage which was never a problem I guess. But I almost feel more flirting and naughty glances comeing from her than from him and she doesnt seem to want much to do with MR curious either and he is Interested in her.
So after a few weeks of this I finally asked him FLAT OUT what are you lookin for I was being blunt and just wanted to know. So Mr. Smith told me that right now he wasnt looking for anything he just wanted to focus on his Son I was like OK thats cool Im glad I know wher we stand.
The next time we talk its the SAME THING he flirts like no ones business and says he has no interested and in Person he doesnt.
SO WHAT DO I DO? I really do like this guy, and the way he talks and acts when not in person appears to like me too how do I find out what the real deal is with out saying " hey am I just nice to talk to but not good enough to fuck"
ANY advice would be helpful