 Re: I'm sick and tired of this. Please offer me some advice.
Saddly (for us) the girls only playing is a VERY common method of swinging these days with the younger couples and its quite frusterating for us being Mrs. Chicup is only mildly bi and enjoys men better. Likewise I enjoy watching her with a woman, but its not my main thing.
I always thought it was the men who liked this relationship in swinging. Their wives could be bi and fullfill that fantasy while staying 'pure' from the touch of other men. As you said, a sort of beginner swinging. Perhaps I'm wrong in this assesment as a rule and the women have a lot to do with it.
The fact that your wife is ok with other women but not men touching her makes me wonder what the issue is. Does your wife just not find the other men attractive? Does she think its wrong to have sex with another man? Is she really more of a closet lesbian?
There are lots of 'what iffs' and you need to ask her what the deal is. Why doesn't she want to be with another man?
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