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Originally Posted by discoandvyper I'm sick and tired of the way things are going for us as a swinging couple.
Why does it seem to me like the whole show is centered on my wife, her wants, her fun, her everything? When do I get a little consideration?
I mean, it's been six years, you would think by now that we'd have progressed from the beginners basics. And it's contradictory, she'll be open to anything when we just discuss it but it doesn't get put into practice.
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I don't blame you for ranting. The thing is, there's a big double standard and you're getting the very short end of the stick.
I believe that what's good for the goose is good for the gander, and vice versa. I, personally, would not get what I want without offering the same equivalent activity to my hubby. You have the right to expect the same.
I'd say everything to your wife that you said here, in the quote. About her saying she's open to anything, but then in reality shutting it down, tell her that actions speak louder than words. It's time for you to see some action, not just get double-talk from her. If she just can't let you be an equal in this, she's not ready to swing.
Best wishes to you!